We study the dynamics of the three-qubit system interacting with multi-mode without rotating wave approximation (RWA). A physical realization of the system without direct qubits interactions with dephasing bath is proposed. It is shown that non-Markovian characters of the purity of the three qubits and the coupling strength of modes are stronger enough the RWA is no longer valid. The influences of the dephasing of qubits and interactions of modes on the dynamics of genuine multipartite entanglement and bipartite correlations of qubits are investigated. The multipartite and bipartite quantum correlations could be generated faster if we increase the coupling strength of modes and the RWA is not valid when the coupling strength is strong enough. The unitary transformations approach adopted here can be extended to other systems such as circuit or cavity quantum electrodynamic systems in the strong coupling regime.